Across the NASCAR world, people carry a solid image of Dale Earnhardt. ‘The Intimidator’ is mainly known for his ruthless tactics, no-nonsense attitude, and insatiable hunger for victory. Fans focus primarily on the ‘racer’ in Earnhardt. However, there was also a ‘father’ in the 7-time Cup Series champion, a side that is hidden to many. His daughter, Kelley Earnhardt Miller, revealed a bit of that pleasant side.

When Dale Earnhardt spoke from his heart

“When I went to college…I never came home. I got a job in retail, and I was the bottom manager of this retail store. And I loved it,” Kelley Earnhardt Miller said on the Throttle Therapy podcast. “My dad one day sent me flowers and said, ‘It’s been so long since I’ve seen you, I’ve almost forgotten what you looked like.’ And I was like, ‘Aw, that’s sweet.’ For whatever reason, I guess I shifted back home.”

This revelation shows the brighter, more family-oriented parts of Dale Earnhardt‘s life. And Kelley Earnhardt Miller’s words are also significant, given her confession to a strained relationship with her father. Last year, she said that they were not on speaking terms for weeks before Earnhardt’s untimely death in the 2001 Daytona 500 crash. She had even admitted to feeling jealous on seeing other people spending quality time with Earnhardt.

Nevertheless, the father-daughter bond had its happy moments. Miller also got a thrilling drive to race from Dale Earnhardt, something that she seriously pursued for some time.

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“I genuinely loved it,” she said. “As a kid, the fun part was going to the track, being in the infield and hanging out with the other kids – Richard Petty’s kids, Bobby Allison’s kids, and Geoff Bodine’s kids. We went to the racetrack to have fun.” Miller continued, “As I got older, I was a tomboy. I drove the motorcycles, the go-karts, all those kinds of things as a teenager. My dad bought me an old VW from the junkyard. He had just bought his farm, so I went around, cut up, ran into trees.”

25 years after Dale Earnhardt’s passing, Kelley Earnhardt Miller chose to share the emotional moments with her dad. Although her racing career ended early, Miller went on to become one of the most established NASCAR team owners. Presently, she is the CEO of JR Motorsports, a top tier O’Reilly Auto Parts team that has won four championships so far.

However, Kelley Earnhardt’s career trajectory was hampered by strained family ties.

A rift within the household

Both Dale Jr. and Kelley Earnhardt Miller spent tough childhoods. The siblings were the children of Earnhardt and his second wife, Brenda Gee. They grew up in Kannapolis, North Carolina, alongside an older half-brother, Kerry, from Earnhardt’s first marriage. However, the NASCAR legend prioritized his career more and fell apart with Gee, divorcing her. Their parents’ separation compelled Miller and Dale Jr. to live with Earnhardt due to financial reasons.

It was then that struggles began in the household. Emotional challenges sprang up from the fact that the family and business were tied together. And Kelley Earnhardt Miller and her brother frequently found themselves in conflict with Teresa, their stepmother.

“We always just wanted to make our dad proud and do what he wanted us to do. We were very submissive in that way to do what we were asked to do,” Miller said on Throttle Therapy. “There were high expectations, and he and Theresa, they made the rules that you played by in terms of that relationship and what that looked like. Sometimes it wasn’t great. Sometimes you felt less of a family member than I wanted to feel.”

The lack of emotional bonds led to struggles in the future as well. Now that everything is in the past, Kelley Earnhardt Miller can reminisce about her father – the good and bad parts of Dale Earnhardt.