Patrick Mahomes is no stranger to missing family moments. In 2024, he skipped Thanksgiving dinner with his mother, Randi, while preparing for the Raiders game. Months later, he was absent from Randi’s summer vacation photos with his siblings Jackson and Mia, prompting fans to ask on Instagram: “Where’s Patrick?” Now, with the new season started and preparing for the Eagles game, the Chiefs’ quarterback has once again missed a family milestone; this time, while Randi Mahomes hosted a heartfelt Mahomes & Mimosas gathering for Chiefs moms on Saturday, her superstar son was once again absent from the picture.

The matriarch of the Mahomes family herself highlighted the moment on Instagram with an emotional caption: “It meant more than words to have my son @jacksonmahomes here to support at my event. So blessed❤️.” The post showed her side by side with her younger son Jackson, who has been a steady presence at family events.

Her social media post carried deeper significance, expressing genuine appreciation for Jackson’s presence and support. Patrick’s notable absence from the family moment spoke volumes, with fans immediately recognizing the missing element in the Mahomes family gathering. The post served as a subtle reminder of the reality many NFL families face – the quarterback’s demanding schedule often keeps him away during important household moments and celebrations.

In another post, Randi shifted the focus to the event itself. She shared a smiling group photo and captioned: “So honored and grateful to gather the mothers of the Chiefs’ players together for a fabulous kickoff brunch… Mahomes & Mimosas🥂 I am so grateful for this incredible community!❤️.”

Hosted at the Cherry Warehouse rooftop hotel in Kansas City, the brunch had all the charm of a carefully crafted season kickoff. From the industrial-chic interiors to the curated décor by @nowitsapartykc, the event felt like a community celebration more than just a party. Randi looked radiant in an outfit from @scoutandmollysleawood, her makeup done by @makeupbyrabeccaann.

The gathering transcended a simple brunch, serving as a symbolic launch to Randi’s initiative to bring together Chiefs players’ mothers, strengthening the family atmosphere and community bonds supporting Kansas City’s stars. A standout moment captured Randi alongside Donna Kelce, mother of tight end Travis Kelce, creating fan excitement over seeing the mothers of two franchise cornerstones sharing the occasion. The image reinforced the close-knit relationships that extend beyond the players to their families within the Chiefs organization.

However, the biggest talking point was who wasn’t there. While Randi celebrated with Jackson and the Chiefs’ moms, Patrick’s absence was impossible to overlook. Fans are accustomed to seeing him step away from family gatherings, often due to his professional commitments. But this latest absence, at his own mother’s event, only amplified the pattern.

To understand why Patrick keeps missing these family milestones, it helps to look back at similar moments where football took priority over family traditions.

Patrick Mahomes’ absences highlight his focus and family sacrifices

This isn’t the first time he’s missed a family occasion. On Thanksgiving last year in November, Randi posted a nostalgic family photo alongside a handwritten note from her late mother Debbie Bates Martin—“11-22-07, Love for family, good health, friendships, joy, Happy Thanksgiving 2007.”

Patrick, though, was missing. While the family celebrated, he was locked in preparation for a divisional matchup against the Raiders. For Patrick, the sacrifice meant victory. For Randi, it meant another family tradition without him.

Similarly, during the summer of 2025, Randi filled her feed with sun-drenched photos alongside Jackson and Mia. She captioned one with: “So grateful for this season with my family, friends, and lots of sunshine. I wouldn’t trade these moments for anything!” In her stories, she added, “Enjoying every second of summer with the people I love the most.” Patrick was missing once again, prompting followers to notice.

The reasons, though, are clear. Mahomes has locked his attention on the 2025 NFL season. After losing the Super Bowl to the Eagles (40-22), he admitted, “Those two losses will motivate me to be even better for the rest of my career.” In another conversation with T-Mobile CEO Mike Sievert, he emphasized his determination: “I’m going to leave it all on the field. Even if you remember the Super Bowl, we were getting crushed. But no one gave up out there.”

Clearly, every skipped gathering reflects that mentality. For Patrick, family absence isn’t disregarded; it’s a commitment. However, the cost of leadership is clear: moments missed now for a legacy built later.

While for Randi, Patrick’s absences don’t dull her celebrations. In fact, they highlight her resilience. She keeps family and community bonds strong through brunches with Chiefs’ moms and nostalgic posts about her late mother. Meanwhile, Patrick’s choice to skip gatherings is intentional. He focuses on preparing for a demanding season ahead. Together, their actions show two sides of dedication: Randi nurturing her family, and Patrick chasing greatness on the field.